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We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

The Imperfects Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 3K Ratings

We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

    Reece Conca - Tackling Male Infertility

    Reece Conca - Tackling Male Infertility

    All too often when talking about infertility, we only tell one side of the story. Traditionally in the public discourse, it has very much fallen into the category of a ‘women’s issue’. However, as our guest this week Reece Conca can all too painfully attest, 40% of infertility issues are actually male factor related.

    Reece Conca is a former Australian Rules Footballer, who played over 150 games for Richmond and Freemantle.

    When Reece and his partner Bell were finding it difficult to conceive, it took them far too long to discover that Reece has a condition called Azoospermia, which effects 1% of men - a condition where in Reece had no sperm in his semen.

    In this Vulnerabiltea House, Reece speaks openly and honestly about the physical and emotional toll of a fertility journey he is very much still on, the hormone injections, the surgeries and much, much more. 

    To follow Annabelle and Reece on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annabelleandreece
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    • 1 hr 11 min
    IMPERFIX: Luke McGregor - Living With Anxiety

    IMPERFIX: Luke McGregor - Living With Anxiety

    In this episode of the IMPERFIX, we revisit our chat with Australian comedian Luke McGregor. Many of us live with Anxiety, Luke McGregor has for a lot of his life. For Luke, his anxiety became so overwhelming that it resulted in him having panic attacks on stage in front of audiences. In this clip Luke explains what anxiety looks like for him and what he now does to manage his anxiety, allowing him to continue to work and to get the most out of life.

    You can hear the original episode in full, with Luke McGregor, here https://link.chtbl.com/5Izyw-wD
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    • 13 min
    James Clear - Down The Habit Hole

    James Clear - Down The Habit Hole

    Every Thursday over 3 million people want to hear what James Clear has to say. They do so in the form of his ‘3-2-1 newsletter’, one of most popular newsletters on the planet. In 2018 James Clear published his book Atomic Habits, a comprehensive, practical guide on how to change your habits and get 1% better every day. And that book has now sold over 15million copies. So you won’t be surprised to hear how excited we were to have Jame Clear as this weeks guest lecturer in The Academy of Imperfection.

    In this episode we learn about the importance of habits. Both the good and bad ones. We learn James’s four laws of behaviour change (make it obvious, make it attractive, make is easy, make it satisfying); the value of goals; we discuss Josh, Hugh and Ryan’s own personal history with habit setting; and how small incremental changes to your habits can set you on the path to achieving your goals and ultimately becoming the kind of person you would like to be.

    You can purchase James Clear’s best selling book - Atomic Habits here, https://bit.ly/3UKx0in.

    If you would like to subscribe to James’ 3-2-1 Newsletter, click here, https://bit.ly/44swR6o.

    And you can find James’ habit tracking app ‘Atoms’ here https://bit.ly/4b1Pq41
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    • 1 hr 14 min
    IMPERFIX: Johann Hari & Josh Talk About Addiction

    IMPERFIX: Johann Hari & Josh Talk About Addiction

    In this episode of the IMPERFIX we revisit one of our many conversations with Johann Hari. However this IMPERFIX starts with Josh, delivering what may be one of the most powerful and moving acts of vulnerability we’ve ever seen on this podcast, when he felt compelled to share a realisation, that he had been addicted to the internet for much of his life. Johann’s response was as always, heartfelt, engaging, hopeful and empowering. And we thought it was worth revisiting.

    You can hear the episode in full here. https://link.chtbl.com/iusc6YA6
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    • 20 min
    Pallavi Sharda - Where We Belong

    Pallavi Sharda - Where We Belong

    What would you do if a teacher said you couldn’t achieve your dreams because your hair and skin colour weren’t acceptable?

    When this became Pallavi Sharda’s reality she moved to India by herself and became the first Australian women to lead a Bollywood movie

    In this episode we meet Pallavi Sharda, a powerhouse actress, who grew up in Taylors Lakes, a suburban area in Melbourne’s west, who went on to not only clock Bollywood, but see tremendous success on screens in Australia, the UK and the US.

    Pallavi is a VERY impressive person, but she grew up believing that she needed to be exceptional in order to have value in Australia. From living with racism as a second generation immigrant, to navigating Bollywood as a foreigner, Pallavi has been on a search for belonging, carving out a place in the world for herself & all future generations of ‘multi-hyphenated’ Australians.

    To listen to the Audible Original podcast, Sleep Sound with Pallavi Sharda**,** follow this link: *https://bit.ly/4bhkeNV*

    To watch Pallavi in 'Wedding Season' on Netflix, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3UBUdDh

    To watch Pallavi in the Australian series, 'The Twelve', follow this link: https://bit.ly/4dins5j

    To watch Pallavi in 'The One' on Netflix, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3UE4GhL

     
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    • 1 hr 32 min
    IMPERFIX: How to Live Again, with Sam Willoughby.

    IMPERFIX: How to Live Again, with Sam Willoughby.

    In this week’s ImperFIX, we revisit an episode from season 2 with Australian BMX racer, world champion and Olympian, Sam Willoughby. In 2016, Sam experienced a life-changing neck injury which left him a tetraplegic.

    In this snippet, we hear Sam describe the bike accident that lead to his injury and his incredible journey of recovery. Most importantly, he shares how meeting NASCAR crew chief, Booty Barker, inspired him to live life again.

    You can hear the full chat with Sam Willoughby here https://link.chtbl.com/GzlSMclz.
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    • 22 min

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Men’s violence against women

Thanks so much for this episode. It was great to hear men talk about men’s violence against women.

Please don’t make it an isolated chat.
Gender inequality and men’s violence against women needs to be reflected in all conversations. We all need to think about how gender inequality and unhelpful ideas of masculinity create an unhealthy and in safe society.

Thanks and keep up the good work!

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